Men – The Rule List

My mom sent this to me the other day. Not sure who wrote it, or if you’ve already read this, but I think this is a really good “rule list”
And guys, don’t get mad… the same thing applies to women!!!
1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
5. Slower is better.
6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can’t be “friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
8. Don’t settle
9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is
10. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”. You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you
12. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them, what would he treat you any differently?
13. Always have you own set of friends separate from his.
14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
16. You cannot change a man’s behaviors. Change comes from within.
17. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are.. even if he has more education or in a better job.
18. Don’t make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less.
19. Never let a man define who you are.
20.Never borrow someone else’s man.
21. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you